False positive junk mail

So tired of good email ending up in Junk Mail Folder !!!

No matter how many time I try to teach Mail that some of those emails are good emails, it seems Mail never learns. Even created special rules for some of them, to no avail

SOmetimes, the email I send to myself end up in the junk mail folder

I'm desperately looking for a solution or even another app that would perform better than Mac Mail

Thx